“There are no body size requirements for love-making, rapturous belonging. Only the calling to bring all of you into the room, candles lit with quiveri…
“To be born at all is to be situated in a network of relations with other people, and furthermore to find oneself forcibly inserted into linguistic cat…
I hit a major roadblock in my memoir writing a couple of years ago when I tried to write a story that activated my trauma. Since then I've struggled to…
This week I decided to turn off paid subscriptions for the time being. I've been in a funky Fibro phase for months and it's feeling like too much press…
Accountability for Paid Subscribers
Hollywood's most popular stories propagate what we collectively believe about the need for and effectiveness of policing.
Safe relationship is built by tending to our shared intentions, agreements, or values regularly. We talk a lot about how intent matters more than impac…
Hi Friends, I haven't posted in 2 weeks, so I thought I'd check in. I'm in a state of transformation when it comes to what I do for work and to make a …
I had an illuminating experience last week. Sleep deprivation (I'm on day 10 of 3 hours of sleep a night) + multiple funky situations I witnessed on In…
I'm angry and the safest way I can communicate it is through questions. If all White people born into white supremacy are racists, then by the same log…
I critique SJ culture because I see a lot of people in pain.
30 years ago I was a young idealist with big hope for humanity. Now I'm a cynic and deeply afraid that we're never going to overcome supremacy culture …